• Contemporary

    Sarah Marshall from Dancing with Fate by @katebenzin #RLFblog #Contemporary

    Kate Benzin shares details about the creation of Sarah
    Marshall in the book Dancing with Fate.

    About the Book

    Title Dancing with Fate
    Genre Contemporary Romance
    Author Kate Benzin
    Book heat level (based on movie ratings)? G
    Will the worst day of Sarah’s life
    turn out to be her luckiest?
    By all outward appearances, Sarah
    Marshall is successful and happy. Only her therapist knows her inner turmoil.
    She thought she had conquered her fear of abandonment until her fiancé Jamie
    doesn’t show up for their wedding.
    After Jamie leaves Sarah waiting at
    the church, she feels that he tossed her aside just as her father did when she
    was a baby. Now the only way for Sarah to
    understand why men treat her this way is to find her father and ask him what
    was so wrong with her that he left and never wanted to meet her.
    Sarah’s search exposes lies that
    shock her. Will her discoveries help her feel secure enough to recover her
    sense of self and move on with a new relationship?

    Introducing Sarah Marshall

    This interview is designed to tell readers about your hero
    or heroine.
    Name: Sarah Marshall
    Age: 28
    Gender: female
    Birthplace: Los Angeles
    Profession: blogger and writing teacher
    Ethnicity/Species (if not human): Caucasian
    Describe his/her body build, skin tone, height and weight.
    Include any unique features such as dimples, freckles, or scars: Dark curly
    hair, light brown eyes, lean build from running, has a ‘girl next door’ appeal
    Who is the
    significant other in your character’s life?
    Julian Butler
    Tell us about this
    character, please.
    Julian is a very successful actor in Hollywood. He sometimes
    finds it difficult to remember that he’s a man just like any other – that his
    movie stardom doesn’t make him a better person than anyone else. When he feels
    like he’s getting too far from reality, he likes to go away to a resort where
    his anonymity is assured. He has dated many women, often for publicity purposes
    for a new movie. He’s not the marrying kind, and he makes sure every woman
    understands that they shouldn’t look for more than a casual relationship.
    What is your
    character’s family like?
    Sarah grew up with her single mother and her grandmother.
    Her grandfather died early from a heart attack, and her father left when Sarah
    was just a toddler. Her mother is a workaholic and distant emotionally, but luckily
    for Sarah, her grandmother is warm and caring. As a result, she is closer to
    her grandmother who taught her all the things a mother normally would have.
    Both Sarah’s mother and grandmother are tight-lipped about her father. They
    don’t answer the questions that Sarah needs answered, but the time comes when
    Sarah needs to find those answers herself.
    How do others
    perceive your character based upon looks, and is this assumption accurate?
    Sarah looks like the ‘girl next door.’ When people see her,
    they make several assumptions about her, in particular, that life is easy for
    her because of her looks. This judgment, though, is completely inaccurate. Yes,
    Sarah functions fairly easily on the surface. She did well at school and now
    does well in her work. But inside, Sarah is in turmoil about her value as a
    woman. Why would her father abandon her and never try to have a relationship
    with her. What is so wrong with her that he’d never want to know her?
    What inner doubt
    causes your character the most difficulty?
    Sarah doubts her value as a woman in relation to men. She is
    confident regarding her studies, her work, her interactions with friends, but
    she doubts that any man will value her in the way that a woman needs.
    What past event
    causes your character the most fear?
    Being abandoned by her father is at the root of her fear of
    abandonment. She doesn’t understand how her father could have abandoned her
    when she was a very young child and never wanted to have a relationship with
    her. She has worked through some of that in therapy, but her fear of
    abandonment comes raging back when she is left at the altar.
    How does your
    character handle challenges?
    Sarah handles challenges in work by facing the problem and
    working out a logical solution. But when it comes to challenges in a
    relationship with a man, she runs away or sublimates her own needs. She finds
    it impossible to understand the problems in her relationships with men,
    thinking that something is wrong with her.

    About Your Writer

    Why do you think your
    writer chose to write about you?
    Kate chose to write about me because she understands the
    emotional difficulties that I faced and wanted people to realize that a
    person’s life isn’t always as easy as it may seem to outsiders.
    What do you wish your
    writer had not told others about you?
    I thought long and hard about this question. There must have
    been something that I didn’t want exposed, but actually, I couldn’t find
    anything that I wish Kate hadn’t told. In order for the story to be clear, she
    had to tell everything.
    What other character
    from your book do you think your writer should write a book about, and why?
    I think that Kate should write a book about Julian. His life
    as a wealthy movie star isn’t as easy as many of us believe. With fame comes
    many complications, especially loss of privacy. Many people think it’d be great
    to have lots of adoring fans, but it becomes invasive. I think this would make
    a very good book.
    Why do you think your
    writer loves to write?
    I think that writing for Kate is very therapeutic. She has
    so many characters and stories spinning around in her head that she has to get
    them out into a book or she just might go crazy.
    Is there anything
    you’d like to say to your writer?
    I’d like to thank Kate for putting my story out there so
    that it can perhaps help some other people who are in the same situation that I
    was in.

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    Author Bio

    Kate Benzin has two major loves in her life other than writing –
    travel and dogs, both of which play major roles in Kate’s stories and provide
    the conditions for her heroines and heroes to learn life lessons. She is a
    seasoned traveler and tour director who has
    lived in Indonesia since 1982 when she took a three-month work assignment to
    train Indonesians on word processing equipment. She stayed because she fell in
    love with the adventurous lifestyle that living in Indonesia gave her. After working as a tour director in many countries of
    the world for the past 18 years, she now spends most of her time writing in her
    home/office which she shares with her Dalmatians and a whippet.

    Author Social Media

    Website http://katebenzin.com
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